Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Hepi Burfday Aqeef Sayang...

Alhamdulillah..sedar tak sedar dah setahun dah anak mama..even tak selebret meriah2, tapi still ada birthday cake untuk Aqeef. Because of abah Aqeef still atas kapal, mama pon decide taknak buat birthday party untuk Aqeef..So bila Aqeef besar sok jangan ungkit2 plak yerr hehehe..
But still, ada laa makan2 kecik..so on 23rd January, mama invite atok ngan nenek, makteh, maklang, makcu, pakngah, aunty Ida, uncle Akmal, abang Ayen, aunty Jie, uncle Shihan, abang Aiez, abang Shapi, maklong Wanis, paklong Madi and kak Amni datang makan kat rumah. So kira meriah jugak laaa kan..thanks to aunty Ida sebab sponsor cake bufday Aqeef hihi save bajet mama..mama pon bleh asah skill masak nasik briyani..even baru2 nak try tapi jadi laa jugak. Bak kata uncle Madi, rasa macam nasik briyani terengganu hahah nampak sangat tak berapa nak jadi nasik briyani johor kann..anyway, 2 kali jugak laa masak and dalca satu periuk besar pon habiss..tak taulaa kalau smer orang tengah lapo n terpaksa makan..:)Tq jugak kat maklang(kalau dia tau ni kompem marah sebab suh Aqeef panggil aunty Dah hahah) sebab masakkan kue tiaw dia yang sedap tuh..
So, ada laa jugak celebration untuk Aqeef on his birthday..Mama still utang adiah sebab nak tunggu abah balik and beli sesama(padahal nak suh abah jek belikan, mama takdok pitih hahah). Tq jugak kat semua yang bagi adiah. Aqeef dapat collection 5 cycle on and also other toys pon ada jugak..bleh bukak kedai toys mama mcm ni..
Happy Bithday Aqeef sayang..moga jadi anak yang soleh, taat pada ibu bapa..mama and abah love you so much..jangan nakal2 k...:)



Saturday, January 22, 2011

G6PD Deficiency...

Well, tgh masak2 nasi bubur untuk lunch Aqeef tetiba member call..Her sister in law just deliver a baby boy and doctor told her that the baby is G6PD deficiency. Because i pernah bercerita dekat dia about my baby boy pun ada G6PD Deficiency, so dia pon call nak share info.
Hmm..Aqeef is reported by doctor for G6PD deficiency. Masa memula doc bagitau agak2 meleleh la jugak air mata kan..maklumlaa, baru pas deliver pastu dapat khabar camtu plak..anak first plak tu, emosi memang terlebey sikit hahah..padahal masa tu tak pernah dengar pon pasal G6PD nih..then bila doc terangkan serba sikit baru laa tau..yang penting, agak lega sebab dengar this deficiency tak akan mengganggu pembesaran and aktiviti baby sampai la besar unless dia terdedah pada benda2 or makanan yang bleh menyebabkan berlakunya hemolytic anemia or ikut bahasa pasar, pecah darah merah, hemolisis.
G6PD deficiency berlaku bila body kita tak cukup enzim glucose-6-phosphate dehydrogenase (G6PD) yang membantu darah merah (RBCs) berfungsi secara normal. So apabila darah merah kita musnah diserang something, this enzim takde untuk menolong pembentukan darah merah tu balik. Ini apa yang saya faham dari doc tu la kan(correct me if i'm wrong). So baby yang ada G6PD deficiency ni, needs precaution on most of medication, foods and environment. Some doctor said, foods is depend on the baby body. Even, ada yang tak boleh makan kicap or kena asap kenderaan langsung. Tapi yang pling penting, need to avoid kacang parang, aerosol nyamuk and ubat gegat. Most of baby or people who had G6PD Deficiency akan mengalami alahan bila terdedah pada bahan2 tersebut. Yang lain2 tu bolehlaa test kan huhu..But for me, because of my baby too small, tak berani nak test apa yang dia boleh makan and apa yang tak boleh makan. Yang penting saya memang nak kena ajar dia when he grow up, say no to kacang parang(fava beans)..But then, sekarang senang la cakap, bila dia besar2 nanti yang agak susah huhu..
G6PD Deficiecny ni takde simptom2 yang jelas. Just bila dia kena alahan to something, baby akan susah nak bernafas. Mata dia akan jadi kuning and air kencing jugak akan tukar jadi warna perang. At this level, kena cepat2 bawak pergi jumpa doc. Kalau dibiarkan akan membawa maut. So memang kena alert to this simptom.
Kalau nak diikutkan memang agak rumit nak control budak to avoid all the junk food. Time dia kecik2 bolehlaa but bila dah sekolah tu memang agak susah. Some of the info i got from intenet list down the food that my boy should avoid. Tak boleh makan apa2 yang ada menthol (include those breath mint, candy and even tooth paste), sulfites(which most of junk food ada huhu), artificial blue colouring, Vitamin K and ascorbic acids. Even bittergourd and kailan pon boleh jadi dia tak boleh makan huhu..Tapi macam i cakap tadilaa, sesetengah doc cakap, depends on the body.
Sometime terfikir susah jugak nak handle. saya taknak jadi mama yang sangat obses sampai kontrol tahap terlampau. Tapi kalau tak kontrol kang, salah makan bleh jadi hemolisis. Pegi rumah orang pon sama, takut jek tengok diorang suap Aqeef makan macam2. Nak tegur kang takut jadi kecik ati, mesti diorang cakap saya mama yang terlampau jaga anak, obses. Then, bila balik Besut, or travel jauh naik kereta, nak singgah mana2 toilet nak kena check dulu . Kot2 ada ubat gegat huhu..Kalau ada, terpaksa laa salin diaper dalam kereta..Agak rumit jugak laa actually. Kadang2 tokma pulak tersalah spray ubat nyamuk..dah jadi kelam kelibut saya kena bawak Aqeef lari jauh2 huhu..
But then bila terfikir balik, ada hikmah disebalik semua ni. this thing buatkan saya jadi orang yang lebih peka. Nak beli apa2 saya kena tengok label and ingredients. Even nak beli syampoo Aqeef or dia punya losyen pon sama. Kena tengok bahan2 chemical yang ada..Nak beli ubat pon tak boleh simply2 dari farmasi without doctor prescription. Bila dia masuk sekolah, what i can do is just bagitau cikgu dia about this. They will alert on that. Some school siap pakaikan tag kat anak kita. If apa2 jadi, doc akan tau. Ada juga skolah yang jenis bagi anak murid makan(tp kena bayarlaa kan) time waktu rehat. We may know the menu given to them. So takde laa nak risau dia beli makanan kat kantin ikut suka ati.
So for my friend's sis in law, jangan risau sangat. Your baby will be normal as other..he will grow up soo great and become soo smart as other(amin to Aqeef)..it just, he need a little bit more precautions and lots of our care than the other. Don't worry too much(saya pon cakap kat dii sendiri juga)..Enjoy your confinement period and be happy..:)
Owh, you may find all the list (mostly drugs to avoid) and also all the info about G6PD dari internet such as this and this..

Monday, January 17, 2011

Another trip to Saigon....

Alhamdulillah...opening trip utk year 2011 selamat and lancar..This is my fifth trip to Ho Chi Minh actually and 3 years in a row as a opening trip of the year..Except last2 year la sbb that time i keje kat Jakarta so not consider la time tu kan..
Mcm biasa laa, pegi this time bukan utk sight seeing tp just hang out and shopping. For me byk window shopping la kan sbb pegi tgh2 bulan sob..sob..xdok pitih wehhh..Kitorg pegi agak ramai, sebenar2nya me n my sister just join my mom punya group. So kira pegi dgn group makcik2 la kan huhu..Tp xde la rasa xbest pon sbb diorg mostly dh slalu sgt pegi sana..lg arif bab2 jalan and bab2 shopping..Diorg lg laaa dok lyn shopping smpai mostly lebih timbangan luggage..Ada yg lebih smpai 50kg huhu..
The main place yg kitorg tuju in Saigon is Pasar Ben Thant..The best place nk shopping brg2 harian..Lot of thing yg xterfikir nk beli akan terbeli mostly kain cotton, shirt and baju kurung..Jgn terkejut, kt cni sgt byk pilihan baju kurung and telekung sembahyang..And for those yg ada baby girl kompem2 akan terkujat sekejap tgk gown2 baby yg saangat la comel dan murah.
Most of the jurujual pon dh pandai ckp malay..shopping kt pasar ni pon dh xterasa shopping kt vietnam sbb mostly pembeli pon org melayu jugak..My mom lg laa, jumpa satu group dr Terengganu kt lobby hotel. Borak punya borak upa2nya dua pupu my dad haha..sabo je laaa..dh jd cam acara jejak kasih la plak kt sana..
Kt cni memula first time dtg few years ago terkejut jugak sbb tgk askar diorg naik motocycle yg ala2 tentera jepun kt Tanah Melayu dulu, yg ada penumpang kt sebelah tuu. Siap dgn topi bintang tiga bagai..Rasa cam nk lari jek tgk askar diorg kt jalan huhu..Tp jalan2 kt cni xde la rasa bahaya, mayb sbb tpt dia kurang crowded and besides, i was not walking far from my hotel. Maklumlaa hotel betul2 tepi tpt shopping hehe..just jalan kaki, xde laa kena tipu dgn encik teksi ke apa..Komunikasi pon agak susah kt cni sbb diorg xberapa tau ckp english..So klu ckp main pakai bahasa isyarat je laa..
Beside Ho Chi Minh, last time dtg,  i pnh gak stay at Vung Tau..sbb my brother ada kt ctu. That place sgt2 la cantik sbb tepi laut..nk pegi sana pon kena naik ferry around 2 hours from Ho Chi Minh..Kt cni most transport yg diorg pakai is motorcycle and basikal letrik. Yg paling best tgk diorg punya topi keledar, mcm2 gaya and mcm2 warna..ada yg sgt2 kecik ala2 topi, just tutup ubun2 kepala..mesti xde cop SIRIM ni hahaha..tp diorg mayb xkisah, selamat ke x..yg pting pakai huhu..
Even dh a few time pegi, still kitorg rasa nk pegi lg..maybe around March pegi lg kot huhu..tp nk kena kumpul fulus lg laa, kot x jd cam this trip..xckup fulus nk shopping besar uwaaaa..













Sunday, January 09, 2011

AJL..

Agak kecewa dgn result AJL smlm huhu..Lsung xmenepati ramalan diri sendr..Tp nk wat cmana, sy bukan juri hebat so mayb juri judge dr segi semua aspek but then i just judge tgk persembahan bagus n also artis yg diminati sahaja hehehe..
Nway, congrats to those yg menang..

Juara : Tolong Ingatkan Aku - Ana Raffali
Naib Juara : Drama King - Meet Uncle Hussain and Black
Ketiga : Noktah Cinta - Hafiz
Persembahan Terbaik : Hanyut - Faizal Tahir
Vokal Terbaik : Noktah Cinta - Hafiz

Actually lama dh xlyn AJL sebenarnya..sbb ketinggalan agaknya, so byk lawak2 pengacara yg saya xbape paham hihihi..Smlm pon tgk kt umah adik ipar kt Subang, sambil blajar wat cupcakes..blaja hias skali tp from internet..Bleh thn menjd gak laa cupcakes tu tp bab decorate byk xmenjd sbb cbuk dok komen AJL heheh..So moral of the story jgn wat keje sambil tgk tv (padahal mmg xde skill pon dlm bab decorate2 nih huhu)..







So, for those yg tgh keje tu enjoy your monday blues ok..Mine is not so blues today sbb cuti dh approve..yahooooo!!!jgn jeles yer...:)Happy working..

Thursday, January 06, 2011

Notes of the day...

I came across this story from one of my fren.
Dia xberapa puas hati dgn anak pompuan dia sbb slalu pecahkan brg. First i thought it just a common story
from a mother of 3 child. Lgpon, biasalaa, budak kan, bukan reti nk pegang brg ke apa..Then bila dia dok cter about second child dia yg sgt baik budi, pandai jg diri n etc..baru sy perasan, dia semacam ada pilih kasih sket..Slama ni pon dia dok cter psl ank no 2 ni jek..hmm ya laa, baru sy perasan huhu..then klu puji kan kemain laa..smer anak no 2 dia bleh buat, n everything is a verrry good thing. Puji mmg melangit laa xde ke laut lsung heheh..Klu cter psl anak lain, mcm ada jek masalah..As for me, this is kind of no good parenthing way kann?
For me laa..pilih kasih is one of thing yg menyebabkan startnya perasaan dengki or dendam antara siblings. Sgt2 no good huhu..Then startlaa rasa xdisayangi or jd anak terbuang. Then jdlaa mcm2 kes, lari dr umah laa..rempit laa, bohsia laaa..eh2 dh melalut xtentu pasal plak hahaha..
But the thing is, parent need to know..each of their children deserve the same and equally of love and careness..One of the reason that contribute to the best children is because of other children weakness.
Contohnya, back to my fren story..Anak second dia yg slalu kemas if anak pompuan dia pecahkan barang..Memula dulu slalu luka kaki tgn but because nk tlg mama dia xkisah laa..Lama2 si abang dh jd expert in kemas brg pecah. See?because of the baby girl sister laa si abang pandai kemas brg pecah, and gain a good talent in handling broken glass..Klau si adik xpecahkan brg, xkan mak dia kena sengaja2 pecahkan brg sbb nk ajar anak second dia kann?Because of weakness si adik, si abang jd pandai dlm satu2 hal..
But this is just from my opinion..Yg pting, say no to PILIH KASIH py sikap hahaha..xkira la to anak ke, family ke or even to budak2 kerja bwh u, klu u boss la kan...:)
As quote,

"As the builders say, the larger stones do not lie well without the lesser" ~Plato

xde yg kecik2 nih, xstabil yg besar2 tu...xde yg lemah2 ni xhebat yg bijak2 tuh...hehehe

P/S:xde kena mengena dgn hal yg di atas but i'm quite excited today..looking forward for the first trip of the year 2011 next week hehehe..

Tuesday, January 04, 2011

Trilogi Cinta

Uwaaaa....dh terobses dgn cter tv1(maklumlaa xdak astro kt umah nih kan huhu)..TRILOGI CINTA..
i just come to this drama masa tgk iklan last week. Memula xperasan bila iklan sebut cter ni adaptasi dr 3 novel Sharifah Abu Salem tp bila tgk 1st episode, jalan cter mcm pnah baca..
So tanpa membuang masa, trus laa mintak lg encik Google..Wallllaaaaaa...cter drama tu upanya adaptasi dr novel feberet time skolah2 doluuu(ye ker time skolah, xpon time matrik..yg pting zaman remaja2 gitu)
Ehemmm..sorry yer, time skolah2 dolu sy mmg peminat novel melayu hehehe..tu zmn dolu2 laa skarang xde dah nk baca novel heheh..Dulu siap kumpul duit beli novel Ahadiah Akashah, Sharifah Abu Salem, Norhayati Ibrahim, etc..Sanggup xmkn tu hahahah..membe2 pon sama, siap kena byr 20 sen klu nk pinjam sehari..adoiyaaa
So cut off the story, cter Trilogi Cinta ni about 3 novel dr Sharifah Abu Salem, klu xsilap tajuk dia, tak seindah mimpi, tak semanis impian and tiada lagi mimpi..jln cter best gak laa kan..
And becoz of the obsession, sy dgn lajunya tlh membeli smer buku cter tersebut kt karangkraf online ni haa huhuhu..sbb utamanya, xigt dah cmna ending cter tuh..mls nk tggu each siri drama tuh, lambat benor heheh..Tp watching the tv series remind me time skolah dulu2. Tiap kali baca novel mesti dok terbayang klu jd filem ke drama ke..siap gaduh2 ngan membe nk match kan watak buku ngan pelakon glemer time tu..Pastu dok terbayang betapa ensem and kayanya si watak hero and lawa giler ar watak si heroin..Tp tu laa, most of the book mmg camtu..hero mesti nk ensem,kaya giler then nama gile py hebat, pjg berjela2..hmm xkisahla kan coz sbb buku2 novel ni laa yg menceriakan idup zaman remaja kita dulu kann...
Skang one of the book dh jd drama..eventhough the actor bukan pilihan, bak kata adik ipar sy, hero tua..hero tua pon tua laaa, yg pting i still like the way Rosyam Nor berlakon...sgt slamber n match perfectly the watak given. He's the best laaa hahahaha, nway i'm not so obses about Rosyam Nor okeh..
So apa lg, for those yg xdak astro(bila laa nk msuk rumah den nih), bosan xde cter, tgk laa cter nih, Ahad-Selasa, 10pm at TV1 utk menceriakan hari anda yg bosan xde cter kat tv..huhu dh tlg promote tv1 dh ni ..:)

Sunday, January 02, 2011

Heppi New Year!!

Heppi New Year to all..May 2011 will bring more joy and happiness to us..
Sgt bersyukur juga sbb dpt selebret new year dgn encik somi (wlupon takat lepak lyn tv kt umah)..
Time is soo precious..hargailaah masa yg ada dgn sebaik2nya..mode insaf lpas dgr berita kematian x-husband siti nordiana..ajal xkira tua atau muda...
Apa pon, to those yg dpt replacement for saturday holiday, enjoy cuti 4 hari yerr..:)